“We chained our hearts in vain” ~Miley Cyrus


I believe many of us get involved in relationships in which we know we shouldn’t. Miley Cyrus says it best, “We chained our hearts in vain.” Sometimes our intentions are right, but often times they’re wrong. Of course, things are great in the beginning; then time sets in, true colors come out, and they’re not the person you thought they were the whole time. We tend to get so involved, it drains our whole being. We’re emotionally unstable and torn in many different directions. We were once okay with the way things were; we settled for being the other woman. We settled with not having a title. Maybe we just settled in general. We settled for all the things we said we never would. Why? Because we’ve created an attachment that feels nearly impossible to break. We constantly battle with how we wish things were and how things actually are. Maybe you weren’t the pursuer; they pursued you, and the truth started unraveling. But for some reason, you thought the ending would be better than the beginning. You thought perhaps you could change them, or maybe things would just change through time, but now you’ve faced reality. Reality says, “Let your heart heal.” It says, “Move on even though it may be the hardest thing to do.” It says, “Rebuild yourself!” Rebuild all you’ve lost. Allow the many insecurities that were created to be restored.” It says, “Be wise about who you give your heart to.” Have you ever faced a situation where you’ve given your heart to someone who didn’t deserve it? Did you realize it before you did it or after you did it?


6 thoughts on ““We chained our hearts in vain” ~Miley Cyrus

  1. Shameka

    This is so deep. I can’t truly relate in so many ways. But to answer the questions: Yes I’ve given my heart to some one who did not deserve it. Honestly the signs was there before I made my decision to. But I chose to ignore the signs. I realized it after it was broken to the point I felt it would never or couldn’t be healed.


  2. 3571

    Yes I have given my heart to someone not to deserving of what I have to offer….yes the signs were there and I ignored it for so long. I realized that it would never change after three yrs of holding on…I am trying to rebuild and heal…I have a baby girl to be healthy for…


  3. jayb_no_e

    I totally agree with what you said. I think the first step is living yourself first and knowing what we deserve. It’s so easy sometimes to get caught up in a relationship and the person you’re with that you are constantly compromising to please them until you have compromised your whole being. When the relationship is over you don’t even know who you are anymore. We have to love ourselves first and the person we are…. flaws and all. Once we know who we are, no one can say anything that will offend us or make us feel less than a Queen! ✌


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